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“I suggested that [a teacher in one of my workshops] translate her statement ‘I have to give grades because it’s district policy’ to ‘I choose to give grades because I want…’ She answered without hesitation, “I choose to give grades because I want to keep my job,” while hastening to add, “But I don’t like saying it that way. It makes me feel so responsible for what I’m doing.”<\/p>\n

“‘That’s why I want you to do it that way,’ I replied.”<\/p>\n

-Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication<\/em>\u00a0(p. 21)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“I suggested that [a teacher in one of my workshops] translate her statement ‘I have to give grades because it’s district policy’ to ‘I choose to give grades because I want…’ She answered without hesitation, “I choose to give grades because I want to keep my job,” while hastening to add, “But I don’t like … <\/p>\n

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